TELL HIM HE'S BAD IN BED!!??....

So the time has come, you and your beautiful man are one step away from making ecstasy. The candles are lit, the clothes are off and the heat is turned up. He climbs on top of you and whispers sweet nothings in your ear. Your READY..over the four play. You tell him "baby i'm ready,stick it

in". He breathes deeply and tells you, "its already in baby". Your eyes POP open like your man

just told you he was thinking about a man while he was inside of you!!...what do you do?!?! Do you automatically tell him to stop, get out, or even I don't feel a THING! Do you deal with the absence of his disco stick and perform the greatest FAKE orgasm any man has ever seen? How far are you willing to go to sacrifice your big O's for his EGO? 

Most of my girlfriends talk to me about this, and I tell them every single time to be honest. When your honest you deal with a much clearer conscience. Now don't get me wrong, i'm not saying you should deliberately hurt the man's ego and tell him he's hiding a lipstick case in his pants. I'm telling you to be open and kind, because this kind of information is not something that can be put into words easily.

Things you shouldn't do:

1. Don't blurt it out, I dont believe anyone can be ready for that kind of let down no matter how prepared.

2. Don't play the blame game, tell him whats bothering you, but don't tell him it's all his fault and he needs to fix it or else.

3. Don't lie about the situation, it takes two to tango and if your in the relationship he needs to know how you feel.

If he decides to lash out:

Don't fall to pieces, if he is not excepting what your saying. Let him go, there is plenty more fishes in the sea with bigger hooks. ;)

If he decides to work it out:

Don't put the man down..HELP HIM OUT! Teach him what you like and express to him what turns you on.

Now Ladies, this may not work for everyone, but if you take this advice and add your own little twist. I gaurantee you will be satisfied.